Cherry-pick of 33a38b6 (#18144) to dev/1.3.

Notes:

• dev/1.3 does not include the commons memory framework from Add memory metrics and refact memory allocation #14710, so this keeps the existing ConfigNode Pipe memory quota from [to dev/1.3] Pipe: add ConfigNode memory control for log reducer (#18069) #18087 and adds a lightweight ConfigNode Pipe memory manager for log reducer plus receiver temporary buffers.
• Also backports PipeTransferCompressedReq#getMaxAdditionalDecompressedLengthInBytes, which is needed by receiver decompression memory accounting.

Tests:

• mvn spotless:apply -pl iotdb-core/confignode,iotdb-core/node-commons
• mvn -Ddevelocity.off=true -Dcheckstyle.skip=true -Dspotless.check.skip=true test-compile -pl iotdb-core/node-commons,iotdb-core/confignode -DskipTests
• mvn -Ddevelocity.off=true -Dcheckstyle.skip=true -Dspotless.check.skip=true -pl iotdb-core/node-commons,iotdb-core/confignode -Dtest=PipePeriodicalLogReducerTest,ConfigNodeMemoryConfigTest -DfailIfNoTests=false -Dsurefire.failIfNoSpecifiedTests=false test